A woman with self-respect won’t tolerate these 8 behaviors from a man

Posted 27 Jul 2023, by Lachlan Brown

Looking for love is exciting, but sometimes, guys throw up red flags we shouldn’t ignore.

It’s all about respect, right? When you’ve got that self-respect game strong, there are just some things you won’t put up with.

Let’s break down those 10 behaviors no woman should ever settle for.

Ready? Let’s dive in!

1. Dishonesty

He says he’s out with the guys, but then you spot him at the coffee shop with someone else.

Or those little white lies that keep popping up? No, thank you!

A woman with self-respect values honesty and transparency.

If he’s hiding things or bending the truth, it’s a clear sign that he’s not being genuine.

Trust is the backbone of any strong relationship.

And let’s be real – if he’s fibbing about the little things, what’s stopping him from lying about the big stuff?

A genuine connection starts with trust, and honesty is non-negotiable.

If he can’t keep it straight, it might be time to straight-up walk away.

2. Constantly Breaking Promises

I remember when my best friend, Sarah, was seeing this guy who’d always promise her the moon and stars.

“I’ll call you tonight,” he’d say, or “We’ll definitely go on that road trip next weekend.”

But guess what? The calls never came, and that road trip? Still waiting for it!

A man’s word should mean something.

If he’s always making promises and rarely following through, it’s not just annoying—it’s downright disrespectful.

Life happens, and we can’t always keep every promise, but if it becomes a habit, it’s a glaring sign that he’s not valuing your time or feelings.

You deserve someone whose actions match their words.

After all, promises aren’t just verbal agreements; they’re commitments from the heart.

If he can’t keep them, maybe he’s not the one to keep around.

3. Overly Jealous and Possessive Behavior

Jealousy isn’t always about love or affection. Sometimes, we mistake it for deep passion or think, “Oh, he just cares about me so much!”

But a splash of jealousy can quickly turn into a controlling tidal wave.

Counterintuitive, right? Instead of being a sign that he’s super into you, it might be an indication that he’s trying to control or own you.

A woman with self-respect knows her worth and understands that a healthy relationship thrives on trust, not chains.

So, if he’s blowing up your phone every time you’re out with friends or questioning every guy you talk to, it’s not passion—it’s possessiveness.

And girl, you’re nobody’s possession!

A loving partner believes in giving space and trust, not suspicious interrogations.

4. Emotional Unavailability

Alright, let’s cut the fluff and get real for a second. Some guys are about as emotionally available as a brick wall.

You ever feel like you’re talking to a mannequin when you try to discuss feelings or future plans?

It’s frustrating, lonely, and downright exhausting.

Love isn’t just about romantic dinners and cute selfies; it’s about being there emotionally for each other.

When things get tough, when insecurities creep in, when life throws a curveball, you need someone who’s present.

Not just physically there, but emotionally invested.

If he’s always deflecting, avoiding deep conversations, or brushing off your feelings, it’s a hard truth: he might not be mature enough or willing to give you what you deserve.

Not everyone’s ready for the depth and vulnerability love demands.

And you shouldn’t waste your time trying to crack open someone who’s sealed shut.

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5. Ignoring Boundaries

Everyone has boundaries, whether they’re about personal space, intimacy, or how often we need ‘me time.’

It’s a simple concept: Respect them.

When he consistently pushes past these boundaries, even after you’ve laid them out clearly, it’s not just “forgetfulness” or “passion.” It’s a blatant disregard for your feelings and comfort.

If he can’t respect the small boundaries, how can you trust him with the big stuff?

Ignoring these lines you’ve drawn is a clear message: he values his desires over your needs.

And that’s not love, that’s selfishness.

Remember, a partner who truly cares will want to make sure you feel safe, respected, and heard, not pressured or constantly on edge.

If your boundaries aren’t sacred to him, then maybe his place in your life shouldn’t be either.

6. Consistent Negativity

Life isn’t always sunshine and rainbows, but there’s a difference between going through a rough patch and being perpetually negative.

If every conversation with him is a storm cloud of complaints, pessimism, or just general bitterness, it starts to wear you down.

Sure, we all vent, but if he’s continually dragging the mood down, making everything about the glass being half-empty, or constantly critiquing others (including you), it’s a drain on your energy and spirit.

A relationship should be a source of support and positivity for both partners.

It’s one thing to face challenges together; it’s another to be with someone who seems committed to seeing the darker side of everything.

A consistent negative outlook can overshadow the good times and prevent you from growing together.

You deserve someone who can both share joys and find light even in challenging times, not someone who’s always stuck in a gloom fest.

7. Not Valuing Your Dreams and Goals

Back in college, my roommate Jenna had this boyfriend.

Jenna was this vibrant dreamer, always talking about her plans to travel the world and start her own non-profit.

But her boyfriend?

Every time she’d excitedly share a new idea, he’d brush it off or worse, belittle it. “Isn’t that a bit unrealistic?” or “Maybe you should focus on getting a real job.”

Ouch, right?

Your dreams and goals are a part of who you are.

Whether it’s climbing the corporate ladder, painting masterpieces, or backpacking across continents, they matter.

If he’s always downplaying your aspirations or making you feel like they’re insignificant or childish, it’s a clear red flag.

Your partner should be your cheerleader, your advocate.

They should revel in your passion and drive, not douse it with doubt.

Everyone deserves someone who believes in their dreams as much as they do. If he isn’t on board with yours, maybe it’s time to rethink if he should be a part of them.

8. Disrespecting Your Time

Time’s the one thing we can’t get back, and how we choose to spend it says a lot about what we value.

So, when he’s perpetually late for dates, cancels plans last minute, or spends the entire evening on his phone while you’re trying to have a meaningful conversation, it’s a slap in the face.

Let’s be brutally honest here: If he truly cared, he’d make the effort.

Being consistently flaky or dismissive isn’t just “being bad with time.”

It’s a direct reflection of how he prioritizes (or doesn’t prioritize) you in his life.

Everyone gets busy, and mistakes happen.

But if it’s a recurring theme?

It screams, “You’re not that important to me.” You’re worth someone’s undivided attention and respect.

Don’t let anyone treat your time as anything less than precious.

If he can’t understand that, then maybe his time in your life has run its course.

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